You do not have to be a porn star to be great between the sheets. If you have the slightest inkling you might be a bore in the bedroom department, here are eight signs to look out for.
- You skip foreplay
It never gets old with the act of foreplay. It is the beginning of something magical that will lead to a night of unforgettable memories. If you are the type that just wants to get in and get out, well, you might just hate kissing and touching or you are not confident about your skills when it comes to having sex. Either way, you do not score an A in the sex department.
- You do not enjoy oral sex
Like foreplay, oral sex is a necessity. Not enjoying oral sex is a guarantee that you cannot enjoy the actual sex. This means you are unable to satisfy your partner.
- You finish too quickly
When you are satisfying your man or woman, you do not want it to end. You want to cherish that moment your partner falls at your feet and is vulnerable. In a situation whereby you want to get the whole thing over with, you are stinker in the sex department.
- You are too scared to explore
An individual that is bad in bed always wants to remain in his or her comfort zone and is never ready to explore. For example, a person that sucks in bed will always want to stick to one sex position. This person does not bring ideas to switch it up in the bedroom department.
- Your partner wants to get it over with
Nothing screams you are bad in bed more than your partner saying, “yeah can we hurry this up I have to be somewhere”. This definitely put the S in Sting. If your partner shows obvious signs of discomfort when you have sex stop buying condoms until you upgrade your sex life.
- Your partner exaggerates your performance
An exaggerated performance can come in various forms like unusual screaming and unrealistic orgasm actions. If your partner appreciates you too much, you might have just scored and F in his or her book. If it is not the first time you are having sex with your partner, there is no need for prolonged appreciation.
- Your partner constantly reminds you to do something
An individual who is bad at sex is a forgetful person at least in the sex department. If your partner has to remind you to tilt you head, press harder or bend more, you have a problem. Giving direction is good, it actually makes the sex interesting but if he or she has to remind you about little things, there is a problem.
- He /she says are you done
You just had an orgasm and you felt that was the best thing ever then your partner says “are you done”. That probably means you suck on all levels. This is the worst thing you can ever hear from your partner because it is evidence that you have done nothing at all.
